A little sidetrack off our regular style of meeting, this presentation from SBNG Secretary Nicola Davies-Cooke was very well attended - so perhaps there's something to note here!
Sometimes the To Do list of a small business owner can cause us to forget that we are all human beings. We get so caught up in daily tasks, or self judgement for not completing things .... we wear ourselves down. We call it STRESS.
As a coach and trainer Nicola specifically deals with neurodiversity, and shared that one common theme for all human beings is the need to feel in control. And when things are going "wrong" this can cause a disregulation in our nervous system, so here are some tips for easily changing how you are feeling:
- 10 second rule! Under stress, the brain produces adrenaline & cortisol. These hormones can dissipate in 6-10 seconds and this helps you arrest the "fight / flight" response.
- Breathe! 2 minutes of either Balloon Breathing (imagine your belly is a balloon - expand it, then let the air out through loose lips) or Box Breathing (breathe in for 4, hold for 4, out for 4, hold for 4) will calm the body and mind
- Exercise! Even a small amount of exercise will change the chemicals being released. Endorphins improve mind balance and make you feel good.
- Mindfulness! Try the 5 senses exercise to discover things that you're not consciously noticing, eg. 5 things you can see; 4 things you can feel; 3 things you can hear; 2 things you can smell; 1 thing you can taste
Creating a Personal Stress Management Plan can help identify your personal stressors & symptoms; set goals for stress reduction; define strategies that work for you and provides an evaluation process so you can make easy adjustments as you go.